Looking to defeat isolation and burnout, meet new people, earn a gold star with the kids and do a bit of good all at the same time? For stay-at-home dads, volunteer opportunities can do just the trick.
With a flexible schedule and ample kids’ activities, volunteering is a natural fit for any stay-at-home parent. That also leaves plenty of opportunities to get out of the typical routine, out of the house and into the community.
More than likely a SAHD will be volunteering to help out his children, whether in school, sports or other activities. There also are plenty of chances to help out within the community, which also can get the kids involved.
At SchoolProbably the top of the list for a stay-at-home dad is helping out with his kids’ school. Whether your child is in preschool or elementary school there is surely plenty to help with.
Holiday parties, field trips, bake sales or a simple story time often call for parental participation. Don’t be afraid to make yourself available as often as possible.Find activities that interest you or which you can add a little expertise. You will likely have a lot to offer and you will add a little variety to the activities, especially when moms often are the ones who are helping out. Don’t be surprised if you become a staple and are called on often to help out as a result.
You’ll also keep up on what your kids are doing and learning and you’ll help further their education as well. They’ll appreciate seeing dad take an interest in what they are doing.
There surely are other opportunities to help out with kids’ activities outside of school. Cub Scouts, playgroups or story time and other activities at the library or at church are all possibilities.
On the FieldMany community programs start offering sports to children as young as 3 years old, especially games like T-ball and soccer. As the kids get a little older many more sports are thrown into the portfolio.
A lot of the community and recreational sports programs that offer participation to younger kids require parental participation in some form. So take advantage of it and become a coach.
Obviously at this stage it isn’t as much about competition as it is about socialization and personal development. Coaches are there more to help the kids learn to have a good time, teach some teamwork, maybe throw in the basics of the game and maintain a little order – if that is possible with preschoolers.
There is no need to be a real expert at the game to help out in this regard. Get out with your kid, enjoy the sunshine and start instilling some of the values playing a game can add to a childhood. Just make sure it’s all about fun at the earliest of ages. There will be plenty of time later for competition and learning about wins and losses.
In the CommunityIn addition to helping out with your kids’ activities, take the next step and get involved within the community. And bring the children along.
Have the kids help clean up the house for items you want to donate. Then bring the youngsters along as you drop off the goods at a charity. Let them know that they helped out the less fortunate by doing so.
Instead of spending the typical afternoon playing at their favorite playground, use that time sprucing up the park. Make arrangements to visit a nursing home and spend time and talk with the residents. It will likely make the day of old and young alike.
There are plenty of other ways you can open your kids’ eyes to helping others out. And start them early with offering the good deeds.
BenefitsIt’s easy to see volunteering is a great way to ease some of the difficulties stay-at-home dads face. It can change up the routine that is getting you into a rut while keeping you active. It also will help keep you mentally stimulated. Not to mention, you’ll meet new people and mingle with adults, thus helping avoid a feeling of isolation.
Depending on what you are doing while volunteering your time, it could help you keep up on your workable skills and you could add it to a resume if and when you choose to go back to work.
Most of all, it helps you extent the bond with your children while teaching them a valuable lesson.
